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Divorce Advice - reasons for divorce - 1.

Married couples have to engage on a variety of purchases during their lifetime and one of the strangest expenditures that needs a bit of thinking about is insurance. This can be simple car insurance to household contents insurance. However, the strange one is life insurance or term insurance. What this type of insurance does is to allow a couple to focus in on their mortality where they have to realise that they are not going to live forever. This type of insurance brings home the fact that the couple are expected to live together and do they really want to. This realisation often make one or both partners within the marriage  suddenly decide that life is too short for this type of long term commitment and seek a separation or divorce. This strange fact has been cited many times for what actually triggered the start of a divorce.

Associated with insurance is finance. Now couples obtain finance for all sorts of reasons and for a variety of purchases. However, refinancing an existing mortgage for example now seems part & parcel of our daily lives in order to obtain the cheap finance or low repayments on a mortgage. Home release equity loans are another example where married couples can experience added stresses that could result in divorce or separation. many couples want a second home in the sun these days and with property abroad cheaper than at home, increasing the burden of debt by taking equity out of the home to finance the purchase of another property can seem the way to go. However, many married couples then experience problems in their relationships due to the added burden of servicing this new debt. WHat they forget is that often, especially older middle aged couples have often got to the point in their lives when there actual level of debt is quite low and they have had several years enjoying the additional spare spending money.  They then refinance the house with a home equity release loaf and they jump back to the financial stresses when they first started out in life. Soon after if the stresses and cutback s are too much, divorce proceeding inevitably are the result.

Credit is another source of potential stress that relationships can face. Obtaining credit in the form of so called cheap credit cards or store cards for example combined with hire purchase arrangements is as easy as signing your name at the bottom of a form. If not disciplined, that credit limit is then exceeded and the high costs of borrowing on these high interest products suddenly becomes a nasty reality.  Almost subconsciously many couples obtain cheap credit without actually thinking that their own real money plus interest is what will be required in order to settle these credit debts and again the cycle of blame or denial will surface within a marriage leading to divorce or separation. There is only one good source of credit and that is one that is paid off in full every month. Any person that allows themselves to be charged the extortionately high interest rates most of these credit cards or store cards have in foolish beyond belief.



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