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Marriage help - Divorce guide - Separation advice. Divorce Advice - reasons for divorce - 10.Home shopping is a wonderful experience - see it, order it, get it. Well that's from a mans perspective anyway. Home shopping on the internet has not taken off as business first expected especially with women. Men seem quite happy with the concept but women seem to prefer real life shopping. This is because part of the shopping experience is all to do with communication, touching and feeling - an exact replica of a womens emotions. Shopping on the internet will never really be a pleasurable experience for them purely because of this lack of emotional content in their decision buying strategy. So how does this relate to divorce and operation I hear you ask? Well if the husband understood more about why women shop in real life this way rather than using internet shopping they would be greatly enhanced in the mens understanding of how their wives think and react. Mens attitudes can be very black and white at times which has evolved from their attitude towards problem solving which very rarely requires any form of emotional content in order to complete the task. So attention all husbands, if you want to avoid divorce, simply watch the way your wifes shops and relate all aspects to how you treat her in your relationship with regard to communication, touching and feeling - go on - give it a go. Online auctions is another example of a typically male dominated environment. Some husbands spend hours on end at their terminals watching little indicators as to how well their bid or sale is going. Could this be a situation for divorce - you bet it can. If a husband spends more time caressing the mouse at an online auction than holding your hand down the street you have a problem. We all have our little foibles but as the internet grows & its functionality increases, you will find more and more husbands dedicating their time to these online auctions which gives them a sanitised thrill of the chase. Should a wife be wary of these early antics at online auctions - perhaps not at first. If after 6 months of monitoring you have discovered that his time on these online auctions such as ebay is getting ever excessive then it needs to be discussed in a light hearted way before being so aggrieved that the only option left if separation or divorce. Computers in the home environment can be be both a blessing and a curse. Cheap computers such as those from Dell make it even easier to contaminate your private living space with these dual aspect machines. Men simply love machines - even those with no obvious looking moving parts - a cheap home computer is simply another machine that will input and action your task with no question asked (subject to the software being OK of course). Home computers have been cited in many divorce cases but the husbands use normally revolves around gaming which is a sad pastime in any case. Cheap computer peripherals will also allow you to communicate with the outside world which is yet another distraction for the husband to embark upon. Many wives have been known to deliberately log onto dubious porn sites to down load spam & virus's in order to control by blackmail and embarrassment their husbands time spent on the infernal machine.
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