Divorce Advice - reasons for divorce - 13.

No divorce can be initiated without one important ceremony first - the wedding. People going through a divorce often see their wedding as an error or an unwise move - a waste in other words. This is a shame as had it not been for the divorce or the reasons that lead to the divorce it would probably still be one of the most happiest days of your life. Divorce proceedings taint everything it touches. So is there anything that a wedding service can include that would help prevent divorce? Are cheap weddings more prone to divorce and separation than the expensive dress up type weddings? Research has been completed in this area of weddings but like all statistics its how your obtain the figures & how they are finally used. I think the jury is still out on this one. Simple Registry weddings can very elegant to the down right tackie. Holiday vacation weddings were all the rage once for some of the more obscure romantic islands for example but since 1992 every Sharon and Tracy is being married to their Tyson and Beckhams on a tackie package all inclusive deal aimed at mass market appeal which is a shame.

Planning for a divorce can be initiated at a variety of stages within a relationship. Most divorces are initiated by women. Now you can put this down to the dasterdley acts committed by men or a womens highly charged emotional make up that is not compatible with that of the mans. I personally think that women are expecting too much from a relationship due to their recent levelling of power and rights obtained by various PC womens movements over the last two decades - simply put women have been encouraged to grow up too quick mentally within unnatural & forced environments on a par with men and without the usual normal slower evolutionary progression dictated by nature. Therefore women now have too high expectations from men who in evolutionary terms have remained pretty static.

They say that a variety of ailments and illnesses can be triggered by stress and divorce proceedings certainly can have its fare share. It is reported that this level of stress found within divorcing couples can lead to cancer due to the attack on the immune system caused by stress. Women and men are vulnerable while progressing a divorce and certain types of cancer such as breast and colon cancer for example seems to occur in a higher proportion in divorced couples than happily married couples.

If cancer remains unchecked or undetected the next stage is death. Dealing with death is one of our most hardest emotions to deal with. Death will come & has come to each and every one of use past and present for millenniums yet we still find it hard to accept death as a natural ocurance. Is it because we have evolved the human brain so far now that its comprehension is so alien to us or are we in a stage of evolutionary transition where we have developed this fear to such a point now that we are possibly on the brink of controlling our longevity through understanding and manipulating DNA?

After death comes the funeral. Each creed and religion has developed conflicting ways to explain these events and to console those close ones left behind. Is this to cater for the fear of our own mortality or to try and make sense of why someone close has been taken from us - perhaps before their time. EIther way funerals can be expensive but recently cheap funerals have been all the rage and many people actively put this in their will that an oak cask brass covered coffin is unnecessary. Whether our funeral arrangements are to be buried or cremated the fact remains that the body left is just a shell. Its life force, its character, its soul, its holy spirit (whatever you want to call it left the body at the point of brain death. That for me has consoling factors that seem to make sense of the situation. A funeral is simply a convenient way of disposing of the remaining shell of body for the sake of the relatives. I have never been with somebody at the actual point of departure when their spirit leaves this earth or world or body but somehow I think it must be a very special moment to be cherished which is far more sacred than a cheap funeral to simply dispose of the body.

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