marriage
- divorce - separation
Marriage help - Divorce guide - Separation advice. Divorce Advice - reasons for divorce - 6.Many married couples are now involved in property investing either due to simplistic greed fueled by the press and media or genuinely trying to secure an alternative pension plan away from the disaster of standard pension products. Many couples in this field are now experiencing relationship problems due to the added stresses of not only servicing huge amounts of debt but also having to manage the improvement or renovation of properties in their property portfolio. Having investment property as an asset can very quickly become a liability especially if you are unrealistic towards costs and choose not to take a long term view. Investing in property for the common good of the couple is a great idea but not if you are unable to service the finance or have to fully rely on the property being let at all times. It is probably the financial stress of being over exposed to finance that is the major cause for relationship breakdowns resulting in divorce or separation. Having a property portfolio purchased with entirely your own assets other than debt never seems to be an issue. So in order to avoid divorce in property investing make sure that you do not overexpose yourself to silly sums of debt in order to achieve ownership of a property. Every married couple seems to embark on property refurbishment at some time in their relationship. For most couples it is at the very start of their relationship when purchasing their first home in near derelict condition on a very tight budget. For others, every new property becomes a property refurbishment project and it is these couples who often end up in divorce simply because their homes never actually feel like secure and routed home environments for them but simply potential money making projects to accelerate up the property ladder before their friends at University will do. These couples are usually driven by the need to make money on their property refurbishments and aspire to a 1million pound house by the time they reach forty or similar but at the expense of not building a solid foundation within their own relationship. With so many other diversions on their time in trying to achieve these goals most couples fail in their marriages by simply growing away from their partner. The classic time for this is on house move number 4 when the typical spec. built 4 bed, 2 bath etc. detached property in a great area has been achieved. This is where one partner (usually the wife) suddenly realises that all this chasing of the goal is not all that great after all and her Salsa dance teacher has been paying her more attention in the short 2 hour weekly dance sessions than the husband has done in the whole previous year. Some couples embark on new build construction in order to build that dream home. There is ample evidence to suggest that building your new home can reap great rewards but for the majority it merely becomes an over budget burden of ill-conceived ideas and aspirations that will simply be sold off in order to clear the couples debts. Many new build construction home owners simply are unable to afford to live in their finished dream homes which then leads to a catalogue of blame being spouted by each partner towards the other. This then leads to mistrust and the slippery slope of divorce lawyer is usually the next stage. So what is the secret of successful self build new construction that wont end up in the divorce courts? - simply employ the right professionals right from the start including a project manager. Without them you will be at the mersey of your builder who will exploit every avenue for making up his profit on your alterations - it happens all the time to inexperienced new builders who try to save money on these types of professional fees..
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