Divorce Advice - reasons for divorce - 8.

Moving house is stress that every couple hates. Not only do you realise the actual amount of junk you have accumulated over the years but actually getting to the point when everyone exchanges is a real lottery in itself. So why do so many couples chose to move home in their lifetime and do their marriages survive the stress of it all? Well strangely yes they do. Any couple who can survive the stress involved with their first house move must surely have something substantial in their relationship to avoid divorce if they choose to do it many times more before they retire. I suppose in a way moving is all about teamwork and couples who interact as a team do very well in the marriage survival stakes. Moving home not only puts pressure on relationships but also tests every aspect of how that relationship works from planning, communication through to managing and arranging debt. Many couples though simply experience an overwhelming anxiety and not being able to cope during and after the house move and choose never to do it again. I suppose its horses for courses - those couples that are well organised and able to delegate & take their responsibilities seriously are well versed in the complication of moving home while others at the other end of the spectrum simply fall apart and are ripe for divorce.

Home letting is another aspect of life that always seems to amuse. Before the dreaded by to let bandwagon. Renting a property anywhere was expensive and full of tricky conditions such as having the Queen as a relative. Well as buy to let landlords are now desperate to fill those voids, the home letting market has changed significantly. With rents so low & the vast choice of to let properties on offer, the renter has never had it so good whether you are a family or a single person. So what about the married couples renting their own well established family homes? - what crisis issues do they face that could impact on their marriage? Quite simply fear of the unknown. Regretfully bad tenants do not come pre-equipped with a red flashing warning light on their heads and even the most evil renter looks acceptable in a suit with a shaved face. This is where your letting Agent comes in handy but at a price. They normally will complete all the references and checks to make your decision an informed decision but it is no guarantee to a stress and divorce free letting period.

With Buy to let all the rage now for alternative investments such as pensions etc. is it too late for the married couple to jump on this express train of a band wagon? Quite simply the tenants rent no longer covers a mortgage to buy the property irrespective of what you are told by the these so called Property Expert shows and seminars - you will need to add some equity to make it work which is currently averaging 25% of the properties buy value. This 75% mortgage may then just be enough outlay for the expected rental. Buy to let properties used to be a sure fire bet but all that has changed with the hype in the over-hyped market & the downward rise of property prices. So, if you have some cash that equates to approx. 25% of the properties value then it just may make sense. This biggest reasons for divorce for all couples is money worries so never ever over-extend yourselves in the Buy to let market.

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