Top Ten Ways To Have An Affair And Not Get Caught...
Top Ten Ways To Have An Affair And Not Get Caught...
By Danielle
Hollister
Most everyone believes when they get married that it will be forever. However,
the reality in today's world is that many marriages fail and result in divorce.
Other married couples may fall out of love and grow to dislike one another
more than they care to admit. But for a variety of reasons (kids, money,
religious beliefs etc...), they remain husband and wife in theory primarily.
These types of marriages can inevitably lead one or both spouses to seek
the comfort of another adult and eventually cheat on one another. Another
scenario that may lead a married person to be unfaithful is an unexpected
meeting with someone who sweeps them off their feet.
Despite their attempts to prevent this relationship from becoming an extramarital
affair, they may find their feelings to powerful to deny and thus give into
their desires to be with this new person. The saying "Life is too short..."
comes to mind as justification for this new love or lust.
Yet other married people may consciously choose to cheat on their spouses.
If you fall into that category, you probably have the art of not getting
caught mastered already.
Regardless of what leads a spouse to break their wedding vows, here some
of the best ways to get away with an affair.
Never bring your lover to your home.
Never go to your lover's home (unless they are completely single and free
from the ties of marriage and/or a serious relationship.) If they get caught
by their significant other, chances are your spouse will also find out.
Never call your new companion from your home phone and/or your cell phone
(if your spouse has access to your phone record.)
Never give your new friend your home phone number.
Keep a low profile when you are out with your lover. You would be surprised
how many people know you and/or your spouse, who unbeknownst to you may see
you lavishing inappropriate attention on your new companion in public.
Do your best to meet with your lover out of town - somewhere far enough away
from home that you do not know people and people do not know you.
Try to set up a regular schedule of "dates" with your lover. If your spouse
expects you to be out of town for business overnight every Wednesday, he/she
will not suspect anything when you maintain this schedule and include your
new friend in your overnight stays.
Do not become too confident in your ability to deceive your spouse. If you
become too sure of yourself, you will get sloppy and you may get caught.
Do not tell everyone you know about your illicit trysts. You should trust
very few, if any, friends with your secret.
Do not make promises you cannot keep. Nothing will prompt your lover to reveal
your affair to your spouse quicker than your failure to fulfill some insincere
commitment to end your marriage for him or her.
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